So, for the new year, I told myself I would write more. I’m gonna try for on the daily, but we shall see how that goes…
The other day, in conversation with a friend, the 5 year question came up. This one question always seems to come up in conversation no matter what. & that night was no exception.
So, where do I see myself in 5 years??
This is really a difficult question for anyone to answer really. I mean, unless you’re absolutely sure about your path in life, then yeah it’s an easy answer. But, really…no one can predict the future. That being said, I would be lying if I said I haven’t thought about it. I think about it every day, and every year.
With every new year, my answer to this question changes. But, it’s 2014 now and this being the year I turn 25, I think this is bound to be the most essential year yet. This year will probably be a factor in determining what my life will really be like in 5 years.
Of course by now, I have learned never to include specific people in my long term plans because well…they always end up leaving. But with that said, as far as people in my life go, one thing is for sure…I especially hope my Curbie family is still with me in 5 years. And yes, I said FAMILY…because they really are. When I’m not at work or with my actual family, with these crazy coffee people is where I feel most comfortable and let’s be honest…I don’t know what I would do if I lost any of them! <3 I also hope that my BRUG people are still in my life. Maybe not the company itself specifically, but the people that currently work there. I’ve come to really care about them.
Also, in 5 years, I hope to be financially stable. Hopefully by then, I will be really close to my new set goal of owning a business (if not already being there).
Hopefully, I am also really close to paying off all of my school loans by then. Because, in 5 years I also hope to be married or at least engaged. Heck, I already have parts of my wedding planned out (my part at least)…the dress I want, list of bridesmaids, flower girl(s), and details for decor. Is that crazy? Oh well, I don’t care. I just hope to find the one I’m supposed to be with forever soon…& yes, I say forever because in my book, there will be NO DIVORCE. I know what it’s like to have divorced parents & I absolutely refuse to put my children through that (when/if I do have children). Like I said in a previous post, I don’t care about any of that superficial stuff…money! who you’re friends with! etc! …as long as you give me the same trust and love, oh and of course, get along with my family!!!